 The owners of profile pictures like this are clearly only after one thing! Let me state for the record and make it quite clear that I'm not looking to date, meet or do anything salacious with anyone, other than to make new friends. Nonetheless, I thought I would put this a page together in order to try and explain what I think most trannies are looking for in a 'date' and hopefully (unless my view of what girls who do date guys are after is so different from that of other t*girls) provide some insight into the way us 'girlz' think on these matters. I should add that there are some trannies who really do just want casual sex but it's usually clear from their advertisements, profile and pictures that that's the case…! |
 'Bi When Dressed'?Many, many, t*girls labour under the misgiving that they are 'bi (sexual) when dressed'. This is taken to mean that that they feel attracted to men when they have got their best frock and high heels on, but when they're wearing jeans and a t*shirt and watching the footie then the longing goes away. Now this is not to say that there's anything wrong, incorrect or false about such feelings, but such statements should give cause for thought - how can a person change their sexual inclination purely by donning a different set of clothes? If this is true, though, you are more likely to catch their attention if you make the effort to go out and meet them when they're feeling their girliest and wearing their sexiest outfits than when they're sat at home on their computer or in a chat room.That aside, how does an interested male (semi-affectionately known as an 'admirer' and disaffectionally referred to as 'TF' or 'tranny f*cker') actually get to meet and date a gorgeous, glamorous transvestite or transsexual (or even regular ones)? Let's remember that most t*girls are nervous of meeting anyone for the first time, whether, male, female or anywhere inbetween. This is totally natural. There are those in society who would take great pleasure in attacking anything that doesn't conform to their view of what is normal, and t*girls aren't normal - they're special! So the first thing that any man wishing to meet up with a t*girl needs to do is establish credibility and trust. They need to convince the girl concerned that they are genuine and gentlemanly. If I had a pound for every time that a girl-friend had told me that they had been inappropriately propositioned whilst out and about, I would be able to buy a whole new outfit which judging by the one pictured on the right would be no bad thing! Chatting and having something interesting to say (compliments are great but they have to be backed up by something more than just lust and desire) are really important. Getting drunk and asking, "Do you come here often" - and believe me, this happens, a lot - are more likely to get you blacklisted (and a black eye) than get you to first, or any, base! |
 Maybe an escort is more your thing?
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| If you actually want to meet a t*girl, the best places to go are specialist tranny clubs such as Trans-MISSION and the Way Out Club. When these events are in full swing, there will be upwards of 150 transvestites, transsexuals, cross-dressers and any other moniker you choose to use in one place. Remember, not all these girls will be looking for a date, but if you want to practise your tranny chat-up lines, these are the busiest places to look. Beyond this there are smaller, local, get togethers. The Trans-MISSION tranny links pages have links to many such local events, though many are only meant for t*girls and their partners and would not necessarily welcome single males. It might be best to contact the organisers first, just to check what kind of event it is. If you manage to convince a tranny to meet you for a drink, to get to know them, gay bars or pubs are good places to try as you won't raise any eyebrows being there, and there's usually one such place in most towns (in fact they are often the self same places where the local 'tranny socials' are held). Other common meeting places include the bars of hotels. Depending on the hotel, this may take more bravery from the t*girl concerned as not only does she have to cope with the nervousness of meeting you, but she also has to cope with whoever else may be in the bar. The upside of hotels is that in many cases the 'girl' can book a room to use for getting changed which can simplify travel arrangements. What else she might use the room for depends on how well you get on with her! |
| If you are one of those insatiable people who just can't wait to get their hands on a transvestite or transsexual, then there are loads of dating sites around. Remember that the descriptions (and sometimes the pictures) don't always match reality. But if you want to chat to someone tonight, then check out one of the girls below…! |
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